Diary of An Unrepentant Sex Addict

Monday, April 04, 2005

As Far As Trends Go...

...this one ain't half-bad. From a Reuters article on teen sex practices, we learn (as we've been reading all over the place for a year or more) that teens are turning to oral sex in droves, over a belief that it is safer (from an STD standpoint) than "normal" sex. The overall point of the article is that the teens are in fact putting themselves at risk by not using protection, and that some STDs that can be tranmitted via oral sex are increasing in incidence. But it was this paragraph that caught my eye:

In addition, one-third of the multi-ethnic 9th graders surveyed said they intended to have oral sex within the next six months and nearly one-fourth planned to have intercourse during the period. It was more common for boys to have performed oral sex on girls than vice versa, the report said.

Wow. Talk about a trend to get behind! It's long-past time that males learned early in their sexual education, the importance and value of putting the female's pleasure first. When I was in high school, no one had even heard of that, unless they'd gotten ahold of some hardcore porn. Let's hear it for progress!



  • Heh. Niiice.

    We should start a pro-cunnilingus non-proft organization.

    By Blogger Avatar, at Monday, April 04, 2005 1:20:00 PM  

  • Interesting takes on the same article!

    I think, though, that the only reason more boys than girls have given oral is that the boys only went there in an attempt to get the girls to have vaginal/anal sex with them ;)

    Once they get "in there", all bets are off. *sigh*

    By Blogger Pisser, at Monday, April 04, 2005 1:48:00 PM  

  • Avatar: I agree 100%. And I'm always ready to, ahem, donate my time for the cause.

    Kitty: I hadn't even thought of that (but then, I'm well on record as lovin' to lick). The joke would really be on them if the girls got their cookies and left them high and dry.

    By Blogger Dausa, at Monday, April 04, 2005 3:12:00 PM  

  • I read the article too and the exact same thing caught my eye!

    I always thought boys expected getting head more than girls did and so I assumed they got it more too. It would be interesting to see how many of these people are having sex because I reckon that should change the stats.

    I disagree with pisser's theory though. My boys went down on me because that was ALL they were going to get and it wasn't done in exchange for intercourse. Just shows what a guy will do when you deny him. Ladies take note.

    By Blogger Virgin Slut, at Wednesday, April 06, 2005 11:10:00 PM  

  • My take is this. Boys are being raised on dvd and internet porn and can't wait to try out what they see. In fact, they are probably challenging each other and placing bets in their boy wolf packs. It has more to do with their own scorecards than the girl's pleasure.
    p.s. dausa When you have the chance would you write to me and tell me how you did the thing with excerpting and linking to read more. Thank you. spankmewithaspoon@yahoo.com

    By Blogger spankmewithaspoon, at Saturday, April 09, 2005 5:59:00 AM  

  • dausa, darling, two weeks and no posts, tsk tsk! Don't make me nag you!

    By Blogger Freya, at Monday, April 18, 2005 3:55:00 PM  

  • My Dad had this really cool How-to collection of books. "The Joys of Oral Love" comes to mind at the front.

    Yep, as a horny teen I jerked off to it numerous times (it had pictures). But, I READ IT, TOO.

    I learned a lot about oral sex and the pleasures of it. And, my reading paid off.

    When my "First" and I decided to go "all the way," I felt it was my duty to make her happy, first. I knew I would come (probably in an instant) my first time and wanted her to feel more enjoyment from our experience.

    Her first words to me afterwards were, "You weren't a virgin,"

    I smiled proudly and said, "Yes I was."

    "But, you (I'm inserting terminology here) kissed me there."

    I didn't reply but my mind said, "I thought that's what I was supposed to do."

    Of course, STD's were limited to what we merely called "the clap."

    Teenage sex is another animal, today.

    If my Dad's books were written today, I'd think they'd address STD's.

    However, in my day, they paid off!

    Shit, I guess I'm an old fart.

    One good point to the fact that teens are chosing oral - - bareback, or not - - is that they can't get pregnant from digesting seed.


    By Blogger Whirlbrain, at Monday, April 18, 2005 7:35:00 PM  

  • This comment is a bit off topic. I enjoy reading your blog, but I have to say that I'm confused about why you think you're a sex addict. From what I've read so far (and I've read all of your posts to date), you seem like a fairly well grounded person with a decent sex drive that you satisfy through occasional trysts with professionals. It does not sound to me like your "addiction" is causing you problems in your personal or professional life or that you're taking unnecessary risks (yes, I read your thoughts on BBBJ and DTY). Nor are you spending all your time fucking to satisfy your thirst. I'm no sexologist, but it seems to me that those -- or some combination of them -- are basic indications of addiction.

    In fact, you sound a hellava lot like me, and I don't consider myself a sex addict, nor do friends of mine that are intimately familiar with my history and proclivities. So, Dausa, can you please explain to your readers exactly why it is that you consider yourself a sex addict and not just a regular (bi) guy who likes pussy and cock? Just curious. Keep the stories cumming though. ;P

    By Anonymous He's named like my name!!, at Thursday, April 21, 2005 2:21:00 PM  

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